Jane Meryll

Jane Meryll

Listening Uncritically

It is the privilege of wisdom to listen.  Oliver Wendell Holmes Sr., physician, writer About twenty years ago when doing some deep inner work, I became aware that I talked a lot, an awful lot, often reactively anxious, sometimes because…

Knowing Myself

Knowing MyselfKnowing others is intelligence,Knowing yourself is true wisdom.Mastering others is strength,Mastering yourself is true power. Excerpt from Tao Te Ching, verse 33, translated by Stephen Mitchell There are numerous translations of the Tao. I own several that I’ve been…

Meditation

Half hour of meditation is essential except when you are very busy. Then a full hour is needed. Francis de Sales, 16th/17th-century bishop and spiritual leader You get the picture. I believe slowing down when overwhelmed is the mindful way…

Benefits of Smiling

Alice: “There’s no use trying. One can’t believe impossible things.” The Queen: “I dare say you haven’t had much practice. . . . Why, sometimes I’ve believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast.”   Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland.…

Building New Habits

If you keep doing what you’ve always been doing you’ll get what you’ve always gotten. When I first heard this, my body felt an impact. As a pianist who practiced for perfection, no mistakes, artful execution, it struck me clearly…

Practice

Practice means waiting without anxiety.  Patience with all things but first with yourself.  Francis de Sales, French Bishop Practice, purposeful repetition, makes what we do feel effortless. One of the root words for practice means “training oneself.”   Playing the piano…